Crystal Sauser didn’t know who wrote obituaries. Was it the funeral home? The deceased’s loved ones?At 39, she didn’t think she’d have to know the answer.But in February, her husband of 13 years died of cancer, leaving behind Sauser and their three children. Suddenly, she found herself browsing funeral home obituary templates, grieving and dissatisfied.She realized she’d have to do it herself.Her obituary for